SELF CONFIDENCE

     

Every man created by God has this quality of being unique in nature. There's no two person created the same way.
     In a simple language,it means that no one is created by God accidentally. This is to say that no person is useless. Every human being is important and useful in one way or the other.
     Unfortunately, some people have the belief thay they're already being writtenoff, thereby  putting on an  attitude of inferiority complex. Wherever they find themselves to perform certain task, even though, if they could, they'd conclude that they wouldn't be able to accomplish such a task, even without them trying to put on an efforts, they quickly conclude of not being able to perform such tasks.
     A story was told of a man who was a student. Each time his teachers gave out assignments,he usually scored zero, no matter how simple the assignments might be. This continued until the death of the man. After his death, it was reported that his teachers were the ones that were usually used to be wrong and not him.
     It was discovered that the teachers,as at then couldn't comprehend the man's approach to solving the questions. That is, the academic understanding of the man was above those of his teachers. So, once the teacher couldn't understand the man's approach, they got no option than to award him zero.
     The problem of inferiority complex is a thing of the mind. Unless a person was able to accomplish a task, he or she might initially be thinking that such a task might not be accomplished.
     A journey might not be made except one takes the first step. With the first step taken,take for example, if  n steps are to be taken for the journey to be accomplished,it then mean that there are (n-1) steps left to be taken. If another step is taken, its then means that the journey remains (n-2) to be completed. On and on like that, there would come a time,if the person making the journey didn't get tired, would reach a (n-k) point,which would be the final destination for the journey, where n=k.
     For one to develop the spirit of self confidence, the following points must be taken into consideration :
*  Having a trust in oneself;
        The spirit of "I can" and "I should", should always be in the mind of someone who wishes to do away with the spirit of being inferior.Once that is achieved, sky would now be the starting starting point for such an individual.
   * Always be ready to take to correction :
     Once an individual is a type that would,at all times, having made mistake, wouldn't be ready to accept and be ready to change,having being corrected,would find it extremely difficult to exhibit a sense of self confident.
*   Once background :
     This is common among those who came from an humble background. In that case, such an individual would find it difficult to develop a form of self confidence to do certain obligation, particularly if he or she feels that those whom he or she would have to contest with those that are from wealthy background.
*   Ability to Express oneself :
        Some people find it so difficult to express themselves,particularly in English Language. With this, such an individual would not be ready to speak out in the public to express their minds on any issue they're called upon to speak about.
*   Social Life :
      Research has shown that there are relationship between one's social life and the ways one expresses oneself in the public. A sociable individual tends to be more outspoken in the public that someone who's not. So, for a less sociable individual to express his or herself publicly might not be all that easy.
    Therefore, if all these factors taking into cognisance, one would be able to develop the spirit of self confidence.